Bad news for dads: Babies ‘should share mother’s bed until age three’ because it’s good for their hearts

June 1, 2014 5:49 pm 3 comments Views: 2996

  • Sleeping alone makes it ‘harder for mother and child to bond and damages the development of the brain’
  • Researchers believe this lead to bad behaviour as the child grows up


Babies should sleep in their mother’s bed until they are at least three years old, it was claimed last night.The controversial advice comes from a paediatrician who found that two-day-old babies who were placed in cots slept less well than those who dozed on their mother’s chest.

Their hearts were also under more stress, it was claimed.

New research claims babies should sleep with their mothers until they reach the age of three

New research claims babies should sleep with their mothers until they reach the age of three

Sleeping alone makes it harder for mother and child to bond – and damages the development of the brain, leading to bad behaviour as the child grows up, researchers fear.

Dr Nils Bergman, of the University of Cape Town, South Africa, says that for optimal development, healthy newborns should sleep on their mother’s chest for the first few weeks

After that, they should stay in the mother’s bed until they are three or even four years old.

However, studies linking bed-sharing with an increased risk of cot death and fears that a mother will roll over and smother her child means that women are generally advised against this.

In a recent British study of sudden infant deaths, almost two-thirds of those that were unexplained occurred when the bed was being shared.

But Dr Bergman said: ‘When babies are smothered and suffer cot deaths, it is not because their mother is present. It is because of other things: toxic fumes, cigarettes, alcohol, big pillows and dangerous toys.’

Sixteen infants were studied while they slept on their mother’s chest and in a cot by her bed. Monitoring revealed the baby’s heart to be under three times as much stress when he or she slept alone.

Better with mum: The study found the quality of sleep the babies had in a cot was far worse

Better with mum: The study found the quality of sleep the babies had in a cot was far worse

Being in a cot also disrupted sleep, with the babies’ brains less likely to ‘cycle’ or make the transition between two types of sleep called active and quiet.In the cots, only six out of the 16 had any quiet sleep and its quality was far worse.

Making this transition is thought to be key to the normal development of the brain.

Animal studies have linked the combination of stress and lack of sleep to behavioural problems in teenage years.

Dr Bergman said that changes to the brain brought on by stress hormones may make it more difficult to form relationships later on, leading to problems such as promiscuity.

The National Childbirth Trust is in favour of bed-sharing, as long as the parents have not been smoking, drinking or using drugs and are not obese, ill or excessively tired.

Professor George Haycock of the Foundation for the Study of Infant Deaths, said: ‘Our position as a foundation is that we owe it to the public to recommend that the safest place is in a cot in the parents’ room.’

Get More Right To Your Inbox!

  • Lyon Zonamyari

    Indeed there are many factors that produce or reduce stress.

    From birth, your documented names shape and define your
    character, your personality, both your mental and physical health, for better
    or worse. More amazing, the letters from each of your names rotate at
    predetermined years, influencing the way you live your life. Incredible, maybe,
    but true!

    I would like to introduce you to an
    almost lost and forgotten system that proves your given documented names affect
    your life, for better or worse. This
    is not a new hokey pokey theory and this is not numerology. This system was originally used in ancient times by affluent
    families to name their children for a prosperous happy and healthy life. It has
    been documented many times over the last several thousand years and was for the
    most, kept a secret. When you see for
    yourself how accurate this system is, you will understand why it has been kept
    under wraps. I was so empowered, I felt compelled to share it with the world. I
    gathered all the available information then extensively researched, updated and
    expanded the system, compiling everything into a two hundred page book. I have
    titled it Name Reality by Lyon Zonamyari.

  • jntuk4ucom


  • ev

    Yeah….finally…suck eggs to everyone who gave me us a hard time for having a family bed. It has been a total joy and apparently my kids will be better behaved teens…hallelujah…the 3rd world families have got it right